Dr. Parker was recommended to me by a Yale educated, brilliant friend who has been through many health scares. If it were not for women telling their healthcare stories I would not have found him. My friend’s fibroids had been removed by Dr. Parker with a labroscopic myomectomy years prior, her scars were invisible (she showed me), and she was thrilled with her treatment, insisting that I call and speak with him. Dr. Parker replied to my email immediately (during the holidays and a pandemic) and we set up a teledoc appointment (due to the Covid 19, in-person meetings were not possible). I set up an appointment at the best cancer hospital near me to meet with a gynecological oncologist/surgeon for a cancer- specific second opinion as well. I sent all diagnostic images and summaries to both Dr. Parker and the oncologist.
Thankfully my first meeting was with Dr. Parker –because I went into the second meeting more aware and informed. Dr. Parker was knowledgeable, friendly, warm,… patient, and interested in my condition and optimistic about possible treatments. He took time to answer 100% of my questions, never rushed, and taught me everything about fibroids I needed to know including why they exist and how they form and grow. He’s clearly an academic, a pioneer, and medical expert on the subject, and fortunately also a teacher by nature. He did not try to sell his services, happy to refer doctors in my area whom he had trained and supervised, though I chose to do my surgery with him. He had knowledge beyond what you will find in any internet search about the fibroids and gynecological issues, explaining every possible treatment for fibroids, how they work and the eligibility and statistical outcomes of available treatments. He reviewed my MRI images and showed me exactly what my gynecologist apparently had never looked at: the ovary in question was clearly articulated, there was no obstruction, and no cancer. MRI contrast images clearly proved that there was no cancer and he showed me how and why. He did a screengrab for me of the exact images of the ovary in question. I had one large fibroid (1.5lbs) he confidently said he could remove labroscopically, along with three smaller, less concerning ones he could remove as well.
At the cancer hospital I went to for a third opinion after seeing Dr. Parker, the oncology expert agreed that cancer was not a concern and said he could do a labroscopic surgery, but was clearly nowhere near as experienced or confident as Dr. Parker. (In a follow up conversation by phone the same week, the other doctor said that he would only do a 6” C-section surgery and remove only the largest fibroid. When asked if there was any way he would remove them all, he was only comfortable with hysterectomy. When asked what the odds were that he would do a hysterectomy while in surgery even after I had chosen to only remove the large fibroid, he said it was very possible.
I decided that Dr. Parker was the right surgeon for me once I knew that both he and the oncologist were confident that I didn’t have cancer. It took a few months to get to the surgery, but his staff helped me through a difficult process of getting through insurance, and I finally had my labroscopic myomectomy. Everyone I encountered in the process was exceptional. In my pre-op in person exam days before, Dr. Parker explained everything prior to surgery that would happen. He was with me before I went into surgery the same day, and was completely calm and grounding. I was never nervous with him, (and I have never had a stitch in my life, or any surgery or invasive procedure or anesthesia of any kind). In the surgery, my large fibroid had multiple thicker than usual blood vessels connected to the largest fibroid- and he and his surgical team were able to stabilize my bleeding, make the difficult decision to not open me up with a C-section, and safely bring me back with a complete procedure. He had to leave the three smaller fibroids in due to the length of the anesthesia and risk of further bleeding, and has clarified repeatedly in subsequent conversations the low risk of any issues due to my age, hormonal levels, and even said that I could become pregnant without any risks to the fetus due to the size and location of the fibroids. I was then admitted overnight for two nights at the hospital, and transfused for blood loss. Within three weeks I was back to work and now it has been five weeks, and I am walking 4 miles a day, my incisions are healing quickly and well, and I am able to move around confidently without worry or concern. After the surgery I immediately felt like someone who had been an unwelcome presence in my body for years was gone. It’s hard to describe in words, but I feel like a new person in many ways. Sex is not only not painful now, it’s a revelation. My digestion/elimination is almost completely normal already, which can take time to normalize but did not. Dr. Parker was in communication with me when I came out of anesthesia, and in the days following from the hospital to home, and has been 100% responsive to any questions, even extending the invitation to contact him should I have further questions.
If it weren’t for women who shared their story with me, I would not have had this successful and peaceful, positive result. I was empowered and educated with Dr. Parker’s help. The confusion, rush and pressure women encounter to have a not always necessary hysterectomy or trust doctors who lack skill, experience, bedside manners, integrity, or empathy needed in this type of situation is alarmingly common. But the consequences are serious. What is uncommon is to find one physician who can change your life in a conversation before you’ve even had a surgery, and follow through to its full resolution. Dr. Parker is that physician for me. I’m inspired by and deeply grateful to have found him, an
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